One way or another unless you seek God to define yourself, we are all products of everything that happens in our lives. Be it your parents, sibblings, friends, neighbours and others alike, your character and personality is shaped , edged and defined by them.
For those of us that have experienced life in it’s many faces, at one point in time we find ourselves minutely living our lives in the same pattern or exhibiting some personality traits of those we have come accross and have touched our lives, either subtly or tremendously.
We live our lives through experience or through lessons taught by individuals, who have gone through some of the paths we choose to take. It is therefore your responsibility knowing this, to use it to your advantage and make the best of qualities for yourself. Define who you are, how you want to be seen and who you will be.
What better way to do this than to seek the face of God. For those who believe and those who do not alike.